Imperfectly Qualified

We've all been there, right? You have started your conscious business then, out of the gray, a little voice pipes up: "But what do I know? I'm still figuring things out myself." Or, "I'm not exactly thriving, so how can I possibly coach someone else?"

That old nemesis, imposter syndrome, might creep into your thoughts and put a wet blanket on your happy dreams. It's a common trap we fall into – believing we need to feel perfectly aligned at all times before we can extend genuine help to others. Ironically, imposter syndrome usually starts after you have been inspired, taken trainings, gotten that diploma, started offering readings, in some way have stepped forward with a passion to be of service.

But here's a liberating truth: your idea of what you should be in order to put yourself out there to make a positive difference for your clients is unrealistic. Chances are, if you are reading this, you have done much work on yourself emotionally and spiritually. And certainly, you are human. Our growth never ends. As has been said many times, your business is not with the destination, but with the journey. What fuels soulful interactions with clients is applied personal experience combined with intuition, acquired knowledge, and wisdom.

Each of us has unique experience. That is why you are so needed.

The beauty of human connection often lies in shared vulnerability. When acknowledging your own imperfections, you show authenticity, relatability, and a genuine desire to connect on a human level.

Imperfections Underlie Strengths

In many ways, imperfections can be our greatest assets when it comes to helping others be more aware, find ways to prosperity, heal old wounds, and so on. Can you relate to these aspects of imperfection?

• Empathy: Your past struggles or current challenges make you uniquely equipped to understand what someone else might be going through. You can offer empathy that comes from a place of genuine understanding, not just theoretical knowledge.

• Relatability: When you're open about your own journey, it makes you more approachable. People are often more willing to accept help from someone they see as a peer, someone who "gets it," rather than an unattainable ideal.

• Practical Wisdom: The lessons you've learned from navigating your own imperfections and setbacks can be invaluable advice for others. You might not have the "perfect" solution, but you have lived experience that can guide, comfort, or inspire.

• Encouragement: Seeing someone who isn't perfect but is still striving and helping can be incredibly encouraging. It sends the message that it's okay to be a work in progress, and that even in our imperfections, we have value to offer.

  
  

Reflect on reciprocity: Embrace the ripple effect of your work. Your clients and customers feel more connected and purposeful and you do too. Let go of the pressure to be a model person. The world needs your kindness, your empathy, and your willingness to help, exactly as you are. Your imperfections don't disqualify you from making a difference; they quality you.

What's one small way you can embrace imperfection today?